Let's Talk About Sex - what is it?

Let's Talk About Sex is a project that aims to deliver quality, inclusive sex education to kids and young people in IFM-SEI and beyond. The project tackles the topics of gender, sexuality, bodies, body positivity and inclusive sex education, and explores and celebrates the non-normative aspects of sex education and groups of people who are usually left out of sex education. Through the project, we explore what is sex, why people have sex, how to do it safely with consent and the emotional side of sex. As part of IFM-SEI’s Strategy and Work Plan (2016-19), this project was launched in 2018 with generous funding from the European Youth Foundation of the Council of Europe.

 

 

Why sex education?

Most young people deem the sex education they’ve received is very poorly delivered or insufficient. It is widely known that many teenagers use the internet and the mainstream media, such as gossip magazines, to satisfy their curiosity and the information they can find there can be distorted and/or inaccurate. Talking about sex is still considered a taboo across the generations.

With this this project we want to raise awareness of how lacking and non- inclusive sex education is. We want to educate young people, peer educators and youth workers ate deliver inclusive sex education that is inclusive with the whole spectrum of genders and sexualities and also with people with disabilities, as well as promoting body positivity and bodily diversity. We want to educate young people from an early age – through non-formal education – to be able to speak openly about sex and to have healthy sex lives. We would like to explore more than just the physical aspects of sex and approach the topic from the emotional and psychological side.

LTAS at Participation Island

Engaging with hundreds of participants aged 6 to 60, the LTAS team delivered a programme of 16 workshops at Participation Island, an international camp bringing together 650 people from across Europe. Workshops ranged from a genitalia fruit sculpture making workshop to exploring communication in sex and relationships, all on a remote Finnish island. Take a look at our video by clicking on the banana below!

 

LTAS toolkit

We are currently developing a toolkit for educators, showcasing some tried and tested educational tools from the Let's Talk About Sex project. This toolkit for peer educators, group leaders and trainers will explore on the topic of inclusive education for use with children and young people. The toolkit will be user-friendly, downloadable and free to use - keep an eye out for the launch soon!

'Me as a Sexual Being'

The first of two parallel LTAS seminars explored sex education in relation to the participants’ own experiences of their identity, bodies, gender and sexuality and analyse how society shapes these identities. Topics covered included the theory of gender and sexuality, discrimination, the impact of media and pornography, sex - getting what you want and need, sexual rights as human rights and identifying good practices for sex education.

'Us as Sexual Beings'

The second parallel seminar: participants explored sex and sex education in relation to patriarchy, societal hierarchies and systemic oppression. Participants focused particularly on marginalised identities and how they are excluded in mainstream sex education, reflecting on sexual identities and expression in relation to pornography, the mainstream media, culture and religion. Topics addressed were disability and ableism, critical sex positivity and sex work.

LTAS vlogs

Want to find out what we got up to on our parallel seminars in May 2018 in Döbriach? You could feel like you were there by checking out our LTAS daily vlogs filmed and directed by Schöngruber Filmproduktion. You can see all of the episodes on the IFM-SEI YouTube channel (don't forget to subscribe!). Here's a taster below!

LTAS zine

Developed throughout 2018, our marvellous Let's Talk About Sex zine brings together some the questions, discussions and activities during the Let's Talk About Sex project in a fun, youth-friendly and interactive zine developed by our LTAS participants, team and experts. Check it out below or follow this link to our Issuu page!

With the support of:

European Youth Foundation (EYF) and Counsil of Europe (CoE)